Toddlers scream to draw their parents’ or caregivers’ attention towards themselves. However, they may also scream out of frustration, boredom, or other reasons. While it is not uncommon for toddlers’ screaming to be tantrum-related, it is important to try and determine the underlying cause and tackle it accordingly. Read this post to know about the possible causes of screaming in toddlers, the reasons why they scream at bedtime, and tips on how to tackle the reasons behind their screaming.
Is It Normal For A Toddler To Scream?
Toddler screaming fits are quite a normal phenomenon and are part of a toddler’s emotional development. Below are some notable facts about tantrums and screaming among toddlers (1).
The typical age for the onset of a toddler’s screaming tantrums is two to three years, but it may also occur in younger babies.
A screaming tantrum episode could last for a few seconds to several minutes.
A tantrum per day is quite common among toddlers.
87% of toddlers between the ages of 18 months and 24 months throw screaming tantrums.
91% of toddlers between the ages of 30 months and 36 months have screaming tantrums.
Do All Toddlers Go Through A Screaming Phase?
Most toddlers may display some form of a tantrum, although not all may resort to screaming tantrums. According to the American Academy of Pediatrics, toddlers could display a wide range of emotions (2). Children have unique personalities, and, just like adults, no two toddlers could be alike (3). Therefore, it may not be uncommon for you to see a toddler with a calm demeanor while your child throws a tantrum frequently. Parents must focus on determining the underlying cause of a tantrum since it could be more helpful than comparing your child to other children.
Why Do Toddlers Scream?
Below are some of the conditions and situations that may lead to screaming tantrums among toddlers (4).
Why Does A Toddler Scream At Bedtime?
Some toddlers resort to screaming tantrums only before bedtime. It may happen due to the following reasons.
How To Stop A Toddler From Screaming?
You may try the following steps to calm a screaming toddler and discourage them from screaming (5) (6) (7).
When To Call The Doctor?
You may consult a doctor about your toddler’s screaming behavior in the following scenarios (4).
The toddler continues to scream despite your multiple interventions.
The toddler does not understand basic instructions or rules, leading to tantrums at multiple places, such as the park and restaurant.
Each screaming episode lasts for an hour or more.
The toddler always physically harms themselves or others while screaming.
The toddler has trouble talking or has poor social and communication skills when compared to peers.
Your child is older than three years.
If your toddler screams before bedtime and seems to be unwell, consult a doctor. Toddlers who scream due to illness also display other signs and symptoms, such as fever and poor appetite.
