You may be newly married, or it might have been a few years or even a few decades since your marriage. But, no matter how long it has been, you may find it difficult to grab their attention. But, don’t worry since we’re here to answer your throbbing question on “how to impress your husband.” That’s the thing about marriage; the charm and romance tend to fade out once life takes over. However, a few tiny romantic gestures here and there would keep the romance bubbling. So read on to find our tips to attract your husband. These gestures would convert them back from a roommate to the very person with whom you fell in love the first time.
Types Of Intimacy
Before we go into the details, let us explain the kind of chemistry every couple may want to achieve. There are four types of chemistry, and to impress your husband and get the spark back in your life, you need to have them all: Now let’s reveal the secret.
12 Simple Ways To Impress Your Husband
Surely marriages are made in heaven but you have to put some extra effort here on earth to keep it going.
1. Show the gorgeous side of you:
Maintain basic hygiene, comb your hair, smell nice and wear fitted clothes. Dressing well will always have a positive impact. Wear a dress that your husband likes, and brush up your appearance. Wearing clothes that compliment your figure not only make you attractive but also boost your self-confidence. Get regular haircuts, go for pedicure and manicure, get your arms and legs waxed and have a facial done. Spend some money on good perfume.
2. Update your knowledge:
Men like women who are well-read. They prefer women who know what is happening in the world. An intellectual wife, who can hold a discussion and have her view point on various topics, will keep her husband engaged in a healthy conversation. Read the newspaper and novels for starters.
3. Be independent:
Do not depend on him, be it financially or otherwise. A strong independent woman is surely attractive. When it comes to money, men really do not care how much you earn, but they do not want you to be a financial drain on them (well most men). For your daily tasks as well, avoid seeking help for him. While it is good to share responsibilities, not asking for help might tempt him to help you.
4. Take care of your health:
Follow a fitness regime. Exercise strengthens your immune system, improves stamina and your concentration. It has added advantage too: it will keep your man attentive and attracted towards you. Seems worth it!
5. Wear your apron for your man:
The way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. Cooking is an admirable quality. Your husband will feel special when you cook him his favorite meal. You need not be a great cook, but the fact that you made an effort to cook something, especially for him, matters. Also, cooking together is an awesome way to rekindle your bond. It is an affair with food.
6. Take interest in his interest:
Be it sports, cars, bikes or movies, show interest in what your man likes. He will definitely appreciate the effort you are putting. It will make him feel close to you and this is a great way to spend some quality time together.
7. Express your love:
Show your love, every single day. Let him know how much you value him. Tell him how much you love him. Do something sweet or different for him, for example write ‘I love you’ on the bathroom mirror for him or slip a small note with his lunch, bake his favorite cake. Care for him in sickness and health.
8. Plan a date night:
Book a table for two in a fancy restaurant or plan it at home. Make your children sleep early. Spend time together, just the two of you. If you thought that we are giving you just some platonic ideas, no, we are, actually, preparing you for the more physical (read: bolder) ones:
9. Take the initiative:
You need not wait for your man to make the first moves in the bedroom. Let him know you need him, show him you are waiting for these private moments to come. Move your fingers over him seductively, while you keep open your dress just enough to tantalize him. You will surely love what follows next.
10. Give him a surprise:
Surprise him with a naughty encounter whenever you get a chance. Do something mischievous when he is in the bathroom, or in the kitchen or when he is engrossed in his phone. When the kids are asleep or are not around, wear a sexy dress that you have bought without his knowledge, arouse him with your acts. This will leave him asking for more.
11. A warm bath can do wonders:
Get into a shower with him. Seek his help to undress you, and turn on the shower. Make the bath playful by rubbing his back, while he caresses you. You can make it more seductive by putting some aromatic room freshener or flowers in the bathroom.
12. Get a bit oily:
What can be a better way to relax your husband after a tiring day? Pour aromatic oil on his back, and begin massaging him. Press his shoulders, so that he forgets everything about work and starts thinking about the task ahead. Being touchy makes things interesting between you and your husband. You need not have to wait for a time and place. Simply steal a moment. And if you do it the right way, a simple gesture like a kiss on his ear can be followed by a long story.
A Right Touch To Turn Him On
Know how to touch him. There are many places where men would like to be touched to get into the mood:
Ear: Kiss him behind his ear or whisper sweet nothings into his ear. Use your tongue a little too. Biting the top of the ear lobe lightly or breathing deep behind his ear will drive him crazy.
Neck: Give pecks on the front or back of your man’s neck. Nibble on the nape of his neck. Neck is a very sensitive area, it has several nerve endings and that does the trick.
Back: Give him a sensual back and shoulder massage. Doing this will increase his blood circulation and relax him. Kiss his back in between the massage sessions.
Back of his head: Caress the back of his head while kissing him softly.
Chest: Stoke his chest gently. Play with his chest hair.
Butt: Arouse him with a light smack on it. Or massage his butt after you are done with his shoulders and back.
Foot: A foot massage will relax him and kissing the foot or biting the toe will arouse him.
Inner thigh: While your husband’s sex organ is obviously the most erogenous place of his body, explore the area around to maximize the pleasure.
You need to be confident and bold enough to make the first move and impress him with your sexuality. And for that you have to take care of your attractiveness.
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